Hi IFYS TOTS, my name is Goody from Nigeria. Actually Goody is not my name because I don’t want my identity known.
I have this angel from above sent from the Lord who worships me, adores me and respects me. She literally swept me off my feet with her luring eyes, her character and her behaviour.
With her, I have peace of mind and I feel so full of life. I feel like flying when I’m with her. She treats me like a king. I feel on top of the world when I’m with her. And the sex is unbelievable; I’ve never felt so appreciated by any woman.
My problem is that I’m married; I utterly and completely whole heartedly hate my wife with capital letters.
My wife degrades me at any opportunity in public, in front of my family members including her own family members. I feel like a houseboy, even though I’m the only one working. She’s a housewife which I appreciate is hard, but I help out in washing plates sometimes.
When I’m with my wife at home I feel so restless like I need to go out. I don’t feel at home at home, if that makes sense.
I’ m actually considering leaving her. We have 2 kids already who are 9 and 8 years. I have a very good job as a banker, so I’m able to take care of them.
Please help me or at least reason with me why I should stay with my wife.
IFY’S TOTS says
Hello family it’s me again Ify With Ifys TOTS, hope you had a blessed week.
This attitude is very annoying to me, I hate when men starts having extra marital affairs and all of a sudden start blaming their partners. They feel the other person is better. But why won’t you be at peace. No 2 kids, no homework, no planning of what to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner. No kids disturbing you for playtime or one thing or the other, Of course you will be at peace.
On the other hand, of course, she will adore you; it’s just two of you. Of course she will worship you, I’m sure you lavish her with money and gifts.
Well I’m not here to judge because that’s not what I do.
I will be very brief and advice you to go for marriage counselling. Try to remember what made you fall in love with your wife in the first place.
Go on family holidays together as a family or even to the theme park, museum or just the local park in your area.
There are so many things you can do as a family which you will enjoy unless your mind is made up to leave your wife.
Speak to her about how she addresses you in public that you don’t like it and if it continues you may take drastic actions because it’s really hurting you.
Hopefully she will change.
As for the other lady, let her find her own husband. Nuff said.
Till next week my word for today is always do the right thing, even though it hurts.
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